torn cape

sitting here overwhelmed and just mad with myself. can't do it all nor do i really want to. just want to sit down without a worry or a thing to do. trying to pin the cape to my super hero costume. darn thing got ripped on my last tail spin. how do they do it? wish i had the answer to that. they all seem so perfect and have order in their houses. maybe their capes never rip and they fly with all ease... or maybe their kids have capes and their husbands sling webs. then there is me... with a torn cape and an unlaced shoe.